One journey, two worlds: How Couples perceive their Interpersonal Communication Experiences with Infertility – A Hermeneutic Phenomenological Analysis

This paper is based on a study that examined how couples experiencing infertility exchange messages at an interpersonal level. It addresses the question: How do couples living with infertility perceive their interpersonal communication about their status? Using hermeneutic phenomenology, five couples were sampled purposively, and data generated using in-depth conversational interviews and analysed using reflexive analysis. Findings demonstrate that couples perceive their communication about infertility on two fronts: at a personal level and a societal level, with society playing a dual role of both hurting and relieving couples of the pain of infertility through their words. The study concludes that the lack of sustained and deliberate interpersonal communication accounts for most of the suffering couples living with infertility endure. It calls for policymakers to infuse communicative etiquette, ethics, and soft-skill competencies throughout the educational curriculum to ensure that all citizens can recognize sensitive interpersonal situations with awareness, restraint, and empathy.