Narrative–affect discrepancy as a regulated degree of freedom in 351,734 relationship narratives

In naturalistic emotional narratives, the intensity of expressed affect does not scale proportionally with narrative structure. Using 351,734 English-language relationship narratives from online support communities (the ANEST Narrative-Affect Dataset, ANAD v1.1.0), we constructed a two-dimensional expressive space defined by narrative complexity (N) and linguistically inferred affective intensity (A), with their signed discrepancy ([Formula: see text]) treated as a derived coordinate. Rather than converging toward low discrepancy, human narratives occupied a broad but structured space consistent with trade-offs between relational exposure and cognitive effort. We identified four empirically separable regimes of expressive organization: coupled expression (non-extreme discrepancy; the complement of the extreme regimes), strategic understatement (high A, low N, D < 0), strategic overstatement (high N, low A, D > 0), and collapse (high A with limited narrative scaffolding). A data-anchored cost model (NCS) formalized these regimes as arising from the interaction of exposure risk and cognitive effort, not from discrepancy minimization per se. Coupled expression dominated the corpus (91.3%), while the remaining regimes formed smaller but non-negligible subpopulations (Understatement: n = 20,223; Collapse: n = 8,040; Overstatement: n = 2,223), indicating that extreme discrepancy configurations occur systematically rather than as isolated outliers. As a comparative probe, we projected an RLHF-aligned large language model into the same space using matched prompts and identical feature extraction. Because D is a deterministic function of N and A, expressive extent was quantified as convex hull area in the clipped [Formula: see text] plane. Under this procedure, the model occupied a markedly smaller region (approximately [Formula: see text] smaller hull area; bootstrap 95% CI [1.68, 1.70]; permutation p < 0.0001) and concentrated near low-discrepancy configurations, with sparse occupancy of extreme under- and overstatement regimes. Together, these findings suggest that narrative-affect discrepancy is a measurable and regulated dimension of emotional expression and provide a reproducible geometric basis for comparing expressive degrees of freedom across populations and systems.