Sexual Flourishing: An Expanded Vision of Sexual Quality

ABSTRACT Objective Expand the vision of high‐quality sexuality with a measure of sexual flourishing. Background Research has consistently shown that the quality of a couple's sexual relationship is an important part of their overall relationship, as sexual interactions are a fundamental part of intimacy. Moving beyond a focus on sexual satisfaction to focus on sexual flourishing, a richer, more holistic concept that includes growth, belonging, meaning, and engagement in sexuality could expand understanding of sexual quality. Method The Sexual Flourishing Scale (SFS) was developed through two large‐scale surveys (Study 1, n = 1479; Study 2, n = 1579) and a daily diary study (Study 3, n = 127). Factor analysis, item response theory, regression, and multilevel path analysis, demonstrated that the SFS is both valid and distinct from traditional measures of sexual satisfaction. Results Those who scored high on the SFS were more likely to see sex as a way to deepen their relationship and were motivated to meet their partner's sexual needs. In contrast, people who scored high on sexual satisfaction were more likely to view sex primarily as a source of physical pleasure and have more consistent orgasms. Conclusion The SFS can encourage couples, therapists, and educators to adopt a broader perspective on what it means to have a healthy, fulfilling sex life.