Transforming Family Communication: How LGBTQ+ Parents in South Africa Create Affirming Sexuality Dialogues

This qualitative case study examined how LGBTQ+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer+) parents in South Africa disrupt intergenerational patterns of sexuality silence through innovative family communication strategies. The study employed purposive and snowball sampling to recruit six diverse LGBTQ+ families from Gauteng Province consisting of seven parents and five adolescent children. Data collection involved arts-based methodologies followed by semi-structured interviews. Data analysis followed Braun and Clarke’s six-step thematic analysis framework guided by queering family communication theory. Four transformative strategies emerged: integrating sexuality discussions within daily routines, utilizing media resources, embodying inclusive values through authentic living, and cultivating environments that welcome questioning. These findings have practical significance for family practitioners, social workers, educators, and policymakers seeking evidence-based approaches to support LGBTQ+ families in developing healthy communication patterns and creating inclusive institutional environments. These practices constitute deliberate acts of resistance against heteronormative regulation, though findings reflect the experiences of urban, middle-class families with access to resources and supportive networks. While participants developed innovative communication approaches, the study highlights both family resilience and the ongoing structural barriers that necessitate such intensive protective strategies.