Of Secondary

In case of love, lover is primary, and love is secondary. Love is available but lover is not available. Lover is unique. Love is not unique. Love is abstract and intangible. Lover is concrete and tangible in nature. Here touch is the main factor of mundane love. As such presence of concerned lover is important more and primary in nature. And lover concerned is considered as secondary category. A genuine lover loves a primary lover, never a secondary one. To the romantic soul secondary lover is not a lover at all. So, question of reciprocation, from a secondary lover, does not arise at all, since love is not a one-sided game rather a bi-partite issue.