Between Faith and Family: Buddhist Devotion and Secular Obligations in the Life of Yuan Nanzi

The Epitaph of Yuan Nanzi reveals the complex situation of aristocratic women in Northern Dynasties, caught between Buddhist devotion and familial obligations. Though burdened by secular hardships, Yuan Nanzi devoted herself to raising her children and restoring the family’s fortunes, highlighting the pivotal role of mothers in sustaining family continuity. In later life, she developed a deep interest in Buddhist scriptures, yet due to familial resistance, she did not formally ordain as a bhikṣuṇī until the age of seventy-three. Even then, she chose to practice Buddhism at home and was eventually buried in the clan cemetery, embodying a distinct model of “faith at home.” This path of practice, which integrated religious pursuit with familial responsibilities, was not only present among bhikṣuṇīs in the Northern Dynasties but also became widespread in the Tang dynasty, reflecting Buddhism’s adaptation to traditional Chinese family-centered social structures and Confucian ideology.