“My Tears Have Been My Food, Both Day and Night”: Integrating Theology and Psychology on the Nature of Grief

Recent work on theological reflection on the phenomenon of human grief has called for an apophatic posture, one that resists speaking positively about what grief is, what grief does, or where it is situated with respect to the economy of God’s works. Grief, on this account, is viewed as inaccessible to theological inquiry and illogical in nature. This essay references recent work in psychological science to offer “theological fragments” on the nature of grief with the respect to the generational self’s journey in the “time of weeping.” In so doing, it argues that an integration of theological and psychological science provides a framework for describing grief in a way that resists the temptation to ascribe positive meaning or value to it in the reconciling work of God.