Coupling Coordination and Decoupling Dynamics of Land Space Conflicts with Urbanization and Eco-Environment: A Case Study of Jiangsu Province, China

China’s rapid urbanization and ecological civilization initiatives have intensified land space governance challenges. This paper introduces a novel integrated framework to investigate the bidirectional interactions among land space conflicts (LSC), urbanization level (UL), and eco-environment level (EL) in Jiangsu Province (2000–2020). Using a combination of landscape risk indices, TOPSIS, coupling coordination, geographic detector, and Tapio decoupling models, we analyze the spatiotemporal dynamics and underlying mechanisms. Key findings show the following: LSC intensity escalated continuously, with the highest levels in Southern Jiangsu. UL grew steadily, while EL exhibited fluctuations. UL-EL coordination significantly improved, with notable spatial clustering. Decoupling analysis indicates a weakening influence of UL on LSC, but with growing pressure from the EL. Importantly, cross-system UL-EL interactions amplified LSC intensity more than internal subsystem effects. Based on coupling–decoupling patterns, cities were classified into five typologies, providing a clear basis for targeted spatial governance strategies. This research provides both a theoretical advancement and practical insights for balancing urbanization and ecological sustainability in rapidly developing regions.