“I Haven’t Had Anyone Talk to Me About Phone Use, At All”: Primiparous Mothers’ Conversations About Smartphone Use While Caregiving

Our smartphone habits have implications for our mental health, including new mothers' experience of loneliness. For a baby, whose developmental trajectory will be directly impacted by their attachment relationship, a parent's unconscious smartphone use is likely to be of lifelong consequence given the impact of such use on attachment. Therefore, new parents would benefit from support in assessing their smartphone habits and the impact on their relationships with their infants. This raises the question-are they receiving any such advice or guidance from perinatal health professionals? This study describes findings from semi-structured interviews and subsequent reflexive thematic analysis with primiparous women in Aotearoa|New Zealand. We found that the women in this sample had had very few discussions about their smartphone use initiated by the perinatal workforce. In fact, the most common form of communication on the matter was silence. We suggest this silence indicates a missed opportunity in offering additional support for new mothers to modify their pre-partum smartphone habits, in service of the parent-infant relationship.