Together and apart: A study of elderly-children relationship in Himachal Pradesh

The ageing population in India is growing rapidly, bringing new socio-economic and health challenges for the elderly. Traditionally respected and supported by the joint family system, many elderly now face increasing isolation as younger generations migrate for work or education. This study examines the socio-economic conditions, health status, and parent-child relationships of elderly individuals in Himachal Pradesh, comparing those living with their children and those whose children reside elsewhere. Using a descriptive design and convenience sampling, data were collected from 50 elderly respondents through interviews. Findings reveal that the majority depend on pensions, live in joint or extended families, and reside in rural areas. While most elderly reported their health as acceptable for their age, multiple health ailments were common, especially among those living apart from their children. Relationships with sons were generally more congenial than with daughters, who mostly live with their in-laws. Migration of children was primarily for employment. The study highlights the need for stronger family counselling, local day care centers, telemedicine services, and community support to improve the well-being of the elderly and strengthen intergenerational bonds.