A way of relating to life; myself and others - a thematic analysis of patients’ experience of having an eating disorder

Living with an eating disorder involves a constant, entangled and conflicted relationship with the disorder, leading to alienation from significant others and one's own body. This pervasive presence of disordered thoughts and behaviours makes it challenging to relate to oneself and the external world without their influence. Over time, the disorder becomes increasingly ego-syntonic, rendering it difficult to envisage a life without it. Treatment should, therefore, aim to externalise the disorder-to foster new life goals, enhance social engagement, and improve interpersonal skills. Further research is needed to elucidate how co-occurring depressive symptomatology influences an individual's relationship with their eating disorder, as these factors may be crucial in tailoring effective interventions.