Freedom to Play

This paper explores a key theme in the development of a group analytic psychotherapy conductor’s training group. It is a story about the importance of play for healthy development and more flexible adult relationships. Some dialogues from the group’s work are included and considered, illustrating the value of dreams, metaphoric work, and rough-and-tumble play for personal and relational growth. Connections between self-reliance/responsibility, playfulness and oedipal relating are also explored, highlighting the challenge of letting go of unconscious but ‘relentless’ seeking of recognition within the dyad in order to allow in the greater freedom of being one amongst many.