‘Removed With the Stroke of a Pen’: The Hidden Impact of Placement Disruptions on Foster Parents in Norway

ABSTRACT This study explores the emotional impact of unplanned removals of foster children on foster parents in Norway. It aims to understand their experiences and identify the support they need during these challenging transitions. We employed a descriptive phenomenological approach. Fourteen in‐depth interviews with 11 foster parents were conducted at various stages (before/during/after abrupt removal), revealing three key phases shaping their emotional journey: (1) the downward spiral leading to removal, (2) in the midst of the crisis: two diverging pathways and (3) the aftermath: unresolved grief versus recovery. Foster parents often felt rejected, unacknowledged and deeply wounded by the separation, particularly when excluded from decision‐making. Two contrasting post‐removal pathways emerged: one marked by recovery, supported through continued contact with the foster child and emotional assistance, and another characterized by enduring unresolved grief, with feelings of abandonment and personal guilt. The study underscores the need for more comprehensive and empathetic support, including transparent communication, follow‐up care and opportunities to maintain contact with foster children. The conclusions suggest that child welfare services should consider a more human‐centred approach, with a particular focus on promoting resilience and emotional recovery for foster parents.