How to Make Kids Like You: One Big Way (and Three Super Simple Tricks)

How do you “make” kids like you? Like, really, really like you? I love asking my children’s staff this question, and I’m always fascinated to hear the answers, which both vary and fall in predictable line. Invariably, what seasoned children’s librarians say is that the one big way to get kids to like you is obvious but necessary: you treat them like people who matter. You ask them questions and then really listen to their answers. You pay attention to what they like and don’t like. You match your emotional tone to theirs.

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Children and Libraries
Published
2025-01-01
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https://doi.org/10.5860/cal.23.1.40
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Indigenous and Place-Based Education
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How to Make Kids Like You: One Big Way (and Three Super Simple Tricks)

Laura Raphael
Children and Libraries
Indigenous and Place-Based Education
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How to Make Kids Like You: One Big Way (and Three Super Simple Tricks)

Laura Raphael
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Abstract

How do you “make” kids like you? Like, really, really like you? I love asking my children’s staff this question, and I’m always fascinated to hear the answers, which both vary and fall in predictable line. Invariably, what seasoned children’s librarians say is that the one big way to get kids to like you is obvious but necessary: you treat them like people who matter. You ask them questions and then really listen to their answers. You pay attention to what they like and don’t like. You match your emotional tone to theirs.

Children and LibrariesVol. 23(1)
Openalex Percentile: Top 95%
Indigenous and Place-Based Education
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