Femme-bracing Neurodiversity: Applying Femme Theory to the Experiences of Feminine Autistics

Abstract At the crossroads of femme theory and Autistic femininity lie the nuanced experiences of individuals whose identities challenge societal norms of both gender and neurodiversity. By delving into these intersections, this article seeks to illuminate the unique perspectives of Autistic individuals who, in some aspect, identify with femininity. Employing six core principles of femme theory—reclaiming femininity, valuing feminine knowledge and characteristics, intersectionality, agency and empowerment, visibility and inclusivity, and resistance to femmephobia and misogyny—, the authors analyze, through theory application, how these principles manifest in the lives of Autistic individuals. Using femme theory, this research identifies the nuanced ways Autistic individuals navigate societal expectations and stereotypes. The findings contribute to a more comprehensive understanding of the diverse spectrum of femininity, emphasizing the importance of recognizing and respecting the agency and experiences of Autistic individuals.