When Pride Collides with Progress: Overcoming Ego to Solicit Support

By Jonathan H. Westover, PhDAbstract: This article discusses overcoming reluctance to seek help and advice. It argues help-seeking should be viewed as a strength rather than weakness. It explores why people hesitate to admit needing assistance due to ego and competence perceptions. It suggests reframing requests as strategic choices that boost collective knowledge rather than solitary efforts. The author provides tips for when, where and how to appropriately ask for help, including being prepare